Suffering from Sexual Exhaustion - Please Help!
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Anonymous
Greetings Dr.Richard,
I am 34 years old. I got into the bad habit of ejaculating to online porn in 2000. I got addicted and ejaculated multiple times every day and gradually with the years started to lose my erection power. Now I don't get spontaneous erection or morning wood. I have some nocturnal erections that go away as soon as I become completely awake. During day time I get very very weak erections when I feel horny. But the erection is extremely weak and soft. i do not feel full or hard at all and the penis does not rise. I wish I can get normal erections like 3 'o' clock or 2 'o' clock position. Mine is at 6 'o' clock position :(. Also my ejaculate is watery and thin. I have given below my blood test results that I took last year:
Glucose, Fasting = 102 (65 - 99 mg/dL) *out of range*
Protein, Total = 6.6 (6.0 - 8.2 g/dL)
Albumin = 4.4 (3.5 - 5.2 g/dL)
Globulin = 2.2 (2.1 - 3.8 g/dL)
A/G Ratio = 2.0 (1.1 - 2.2 ratio)
AST (SGOT) = 18 (5 - 34 U/L)
ALT (SGPT) = 29 (10 - 35 U/L)
Bilirubin, Total = 0.4 (0.0 - 1.0 mg/dL)
Alkaline Phosphatase = 52 (40 - 150 U/L)
Calcium = 9.3 (8.5 - 10.5 mg/dL)
BUN (Urea Nitrogen) = 15 (11 - 37 mg/dL)
Creatinine = 1.2 (0.7 - 1.3 mg/dL)
Sodium = 141 (135 - 145 mEq/L)
Potassium = 4.4 (3.5 - 5.3 mEq/L)
Chloride = 103 (96 - 112 mEq/L)
CO2 (Bicarbonate) = 27 (22 - 29 mEq/L)
Cholesterol = 149 (130 - 200 mg/dL)
Triglycerides = 124 (<150 mg/dL)
HDL Cholesterol = 44 (40 - 90 mg/dL)
LDL Cholesterol = 80 (<100 mg/dL)
VLDL Cholesterol = 25 (<42 mg/dL)
Glycohemoglobin A1C = 6.1 (<6.0) *out of range*
Prolactin = 4.5 (2.1 - 17.7 ng/mL)
Estradiol = 32.1 (11.6 - 41.2 pg/mL)
DHEA-S = 491 (35 - 430 ug/dL) *out of range*
Testosterone, Total = 431 (241 - 827 ng/dL)
Testosterone, Free = 1.59 (0.95 - 4.30 ng/dL)
TSH, Ultrasensitive = 1.45 (0.35 - 5.50 uIU/mL)
T3, Free (FT3) = 3.66 (2.3 - 4.2 pg/mL)
T4, Free (FT4) = 1.35 (0.89 - 1.76 ng/dL)
Cortisol, Free 24 hour Urine = 29.90 (2.6 - 37.0 ug/24 hr)
Can you please help me get back to normal Dr.Richard?
Thanks and God Bless!
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Greetings,
The results seem fairly normal, just a bit out of normal range for glucose and glucose-hemoglobin, so should be careful not to develop form of diabetes.
You are experiencing degree of sexual exhaustion, hopefully you don't suffer from the most severe symptoms.
Overmasturbation can be very damaging to both nervous and endocrine systems, thus causing numerous ill effects. When the hypothalamic-pituitary-testicular axis is not working efficiently enough you will experience the symptoms you are dealing with.
A satisfying recovery is more than possible, however there are several things that should be done
1.Discontinue sexual activities
2.Balance your diet
3.Make good use of the specially created AM-HGH, Multi-A, A-Amino, and Ultra-Purified-FishOil to restore proper restore proper nervous and endocrine functions, boost the natural HGH production, restore serotonin-GABA nervous modulation on excessive dopamine-norepinephrine-epinephrine conversion, positively change the current negative neuroplasticity, support testicular function, charge the CNS, and promote prostaglandin E1 E3 and NO for healing.
Thanks for your kind response
Thanks for your kind response Doctor. I have few questions:
1) I am puzzled why I am getting nocturnal erections but lose them the moment I fully wake up?
2) For how many days should I discontinue sexual activities?
3) What is the dosage for the supplements you have recommended? and how many days should I take them?
4) How many days will it take for me to get normal hard erections?
Thanks!
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It is my pleasure.
1. Due to changes in the biochemistry and induced responses when one is awake. Also if you lose them right away might mean that the available androgen hormones are distributed to fuel other vital functions(due to increased consumption) so there are not enough left to fuel your erection.
2. Three weeks to a month, and continue with lowered sexual activities for two to three more months.
3. 2 Tablets of AM-HGH in the morning, 2 tablets of Male-Multi-A throughout the day, 2 tablets of A-Amino after exercise or throughout the day, best in the early afternoon, and 2 to 3 capsules of Ultra-Purified-FishOil throughout the day, after meals.
4. Depends on the severity of the exhaustion and individual gene expression, but after the first two weeks to a month notable improvements will be observed. However, to keep the results and fully restore proper endocrine functioning you should abstain from excessive sexual activities even further, even though you will have normal erections soon enough.
Hello Dr. Richards
I've had a similar problem except I've went through extreme phases of masturbating to pornography since I was 14. I am 25 now and have pretty much lost my sex drive. Worse yet, I've progressively turned to harder and harder porn to reach orgasm. I noticed the trend a few years back and have either quit porn for a few weeks or worked on "normalizing" what I watch. I've never been able to fully kick my pornography addiction even though I don't want to use it anymore.
At 16, I was put on Celexa for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and that made it difficult to orgasm and stay hard. I always thought it was just the medicine that caused this, but since I've been off, I only notice a minor difference. I can orgasm quicker, yes, but I don't get hard without physical contact and porn to help me.
As for relations with the opposite sex, I've only had a few with one woman on two separate occasions. The first time I was on Celexa and I just could not maintain an erection or reach orgasm. It was extremely embarrassing. The second time, I was off the med for a few weeks and I still had the same problem. At this point, I've pretty much given up because I'm so afraid to have this happen again. I'm thinking of going to sexual addiction counseling to cure my porn addiction once and for all, but I'm not even close to the rate I was at in my teens. I'm being honest when I say, there are some days I masturbated over ten times. I would say from 15-18, I averaged somewhere between 2-3 times a day. Since then, it was about once a day until this year. My drive is dying and I just want to have a normal, healthy sex drive again. Do you recommend I take the same supplements the previous poster should? I've been off Celexa for about two months now and have taken breaks from it before. So, I'm not taking anything at all right now and just want to get myself back on track. Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks!
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You've gone through one of the worst cases scenario, years of excessive masturbation plus chronic intake of SSRIs(Here). All this harmed your proper endocrine and nervous functioning and ultimately ruined your sex life and libido.
OCD may be related to your overactive sexual activities, since a serotonin fluctations are a possible cause.
The problems should be addressed properly and there is much that can be done.
Yes, AM-HGH, Male-Multi-A, A-Amino, and Ultra-Purified-FishOil will be of great help in dealing with the problems, but you should also add Griffonia simplicifolia - 5HTP, and BC-Liver to more specifically address the damage caused by the SSRIs. All of the above should restore proper nervous and endocrine functioning, increase the libido, boost hGH and androgen hormones production, restore nervous modulation on stress and inflammatory hormonal releases, support proper testicular functioning, charge the CNS, and promote prostaglandin E1 E3 and NO for healing, and ultimately get you rid off the generally unnatural for a 25 years old man problems.