I am 18 years old, 19 in 2 months or so, I have been experiencing erection difficulties for the past 3.5 years. I can remember clearly the first time this problem happened and ever since this i have strongly believed the reason is that i am simply frightened that it will happen again and cause me a lot of embarrassment.
I have tried kamagra to assist me gaining an errection however the idea that i will have to take this and have to plan to have sex for the rest of my life has caused me great depression. I have smoked cigarettes and cannabis heavily (daily) for the past 4 years but for the recent 8 months have realized this may be contributing to my problem and have slowly cut down and finally completely cut the habit along with not drinking alcohol at all.
I did little or no exercise for the past 4 years but have increased this alot to atleast 20 mins of fast paced running every other day which i can tell myself is improving my fitness levels. My diet was also very unhealthy in which i have improved greatly, i eat alot of fruit, i take codliver oil tablets twice a day, vitamin C supplements, alot of vegetables, i drink alot of water and basically i know i have improved my overall health as much as i can.
I first started masturbating at 11 years of age and have been constantly doing so 2-3 times a day, each of these sessions consisting of several orgasms, i am able to hold in my sperm whilst experiencing an orgasm and within about 20 seconds i am ready to carry on, almost as if one orgasm doesn’t satisfy, so sometimes i may have 15+ orgasms a day. I seem to always think about sex, constantly thinking about it whenever i see any attractive woman however it seems that i cannot control my sexual urges. I have a girlfriend and i have successful intercourse with her quite frequently. However, whenever she tries to have sex with me, i am not sexually stimulated at all, in my head i am thinking yes definitely want to do that now, but my body completely just denies me of feeling that way. It’s almost as if i randomly become horny and just use my penis when i can, i cant seem to gain an erection when i want to.
I have just started to stop masturbating and im going to try to just have sex with my girlfriend once a week with no masturbation at all. I am very tired all of the time with alot of concentration problems, i have an occasional pop and ring in my ear for a few seconds this happens approximately 3 times a week. I have alot of memory problems, i now have from what i have been told by my doctor as anxiety attacks quite frequently with my breathing patterns. I know that these things such as memory loss, headaches and being tired/lethargic all the time could also have been caused by the smoking of cannabis i do take this into consideration. I also experience blurred vision quite frequently and am currently under alot of stress due to my A-Level studying and thought maybe this may be a factor aswell.
Another thing is that i seem to be more sexually stimulated when i am about to have unprotected sex than the thought of putting a condom on, when i do this i am usually limp by the time i have put it on and then im useless.