Everybody, I’ve been monitoring the forum and decided to try avoiding masturbation for myself. After months of struggle I hit day 40 today! My initial goal was 30 but after day “20” I actually became more uninterested in porn and masturbation than I’ve ever been so it’s quite easy to keep it up now.
I’m kind of concerned it may not be good for my health and some of the guys that say “use it or lose it” may turn out right. Yesterday I saw these fine girls on the street and I didn’t even think of having sex with them.
Regardless, I have decided to masturbate on day 60 and see if I’m better.
Additional notes: I do feel much more confident and my thoughts are twice as clear for the moment. Strong night erections are also present, started appearing around day “15”.
/twelvebyninety/
That’s not how it went in the movie “40 Days and 40 Nights” ;D. Now seriously I think your body has been operating on high levels of inflammation and excitation to sustain the activities. Now that they are low you suffer the reversed effect and lose libido since the receptors for them have been lowered to preserve the balance through the spikes. Just my 5 cents.
You have to go up to 90 days. It’s the rule of nofap.
Don’t break your on-going streak! I wouldn’t be recommending you to masturbate on day 60. It’s thing like this to hinder us from achieving greatness in life!
“I have already go on for 60 days……no harm in masturbating after refraining from it for so long” This will lead to unpleasant consequences in the long run.
Giving in to your lust will not do you any good! It’s like saying “I have been dieting for 30 days and I have lost 3 pounds. My goal is to lose 20 pounds, but I will reward myself by eating a buffet first for losing 3 pounds!” It’s mindset like this that people fail to complete their diet.
And the same theory applies to noFap as well. Don’t give in or “take a break”.
Congratulations twelve, 40 days is awesome, keep strong, I am pretty sure you will achieve your goals and get back your sex drive! I would go over the 60 days and find a partner, maybe.
That’s not how it went in the movie “40 Days and 40 Nights” ;D. Now seriously I think your body has been operating on high levels of inflammation and excitation to sustain the activities. Now that they are low you suffer the reversed effect and lose libido since the receptors for them have been lowered to preserve the balance through the spikes. Just my 5 cents.
You have to go up to 90 days. It’s the rule of nofap.
Don’t break your on-going streak! I wouldn’t be recommending you to masturbate on day 60. It’s thing like this to hinder us from achieving greatness in life!
“I have already go on for 60 days……no harm in masturbating after refraining from it for so long”
This will lead to unpleasant consequences in the long run.
Giving in to your lust will not do you any good! It’s like saying “I have been dieting for 30 days and I have lost 3 pounds. My goal is to lose 20 pounds, but I will reward myself by eating a buffet first for losing 3 pounds!” It’s mindset like this that people fail to complete their diet.
And the same theory applies to noFap as well. Don’t give in or “take a break”.
Congratulations twelve, 40 days is awesome, keep strong, I am pretty sure you will achieve your goals and get back your sex drive! I would go over the 60 days and find a partner, maybe.