I will start with the somewhat necessary background. I am 27 years old male and I consider myself to be a recovering masturbation addict. I consider masturbation to be in the root of the whole series of issues in my life to this moment.

When I was 17 years younger or so, people considered me a very gifted child. Some even mentioned the possibility of me being a genius. I was extremely creative (used to build a lot of things as well), actively reading, drawing beautiful pictures, and so on.

It wouldn’t be an exaggeration to state that it all almost instantaneously ended when I discovered my parents hidden stash of porn. I started watching the movies and the impact was nothing more of devastating. I have read about sex in encyclopedias but seeing it live was a whole different thing… I was grossed out initially but then got hooked and couldn’t stop thinking about it.

The images I saw became my obsession. Not long after I started masturbating actively. Probably 5 times a day or more… there were cases I would reach 20 plus and I’m not kidding. The worst of it all was that I discovered it way too young and achieved all this pleasure without the need of any meaningful relationships with females. All I needed was to touch myself.

My mental abilities, drive and performance slowly began to suffer and I went from being the best of the entire school to one of the worst. I masturbated instead of studying yes… but there was more to it… I just lost much of my drive and ability to concentrate and remember.

A bit later when I got access to internet porn it became even worse with that endless free and new sexual acts I could observe. Since 20 or so I started living even more isolated and even left high school. I would still support myself from home and some freelance programming. Masturbation had become so mechanical by then that I would even type on the keyboard with one hand and masturbate with the other.

I then noticed that when I would encounter a problem or something that requires extensive thought I would just feel tense and in need of masturbation. I would usually then masturbate right away just like a reflex.

My appearance suffered as well, I still look like I’m 17 or something in terms of muscle mass and height. I seriously think masturbation impaired my growth. I feel underdeveloped in every sense. I’m 27 and still feel like teenager even mentally. My hair suffered at my early 20-ties and got progressively worse and I notice it get even worse after each masturbation session.

Funnily enough that continued for so long and I never actually admitted that it was a problem up until recently. What made me realize my problem was a surgery that took place to remove my foreskin. I had phimosis so it had to be removed. After the operation I had bandages all over and I couldn’t masturbate for 2 or 3 weeks. The first day I was feeling a bit uneasy, the second day more so, the third I was feeling even more terrible and in a desperate need of masturbation, by the fifth day I realized that I was suffering from withdrawal. Plan and simple! I was no different than a coke junky needing a fix. Hell I even suffered from sweating, insomnia and fever at one point.

I searched the web for answers and found much information confirming my suspicions. I was able to reduce masturbation from 3-4 times per day to once per 2 days but I’m afraid it’s still not enough. I’m going for once per week but it’s really hard to do it.

I hope I have been extensive enough as I now have a couple of questions to ask you.

– Do you think that my physical appearance and undergrowth has something to do with masturbation?
– Do you believe that I may have ruined some of my organs like testicles and prostate?
– Can I do something to aid my brain issues and imbalances I mentioned? I would very much like to return to the bright kid I once was.
– Do you think I’ve got a good shot in reversing this? I know that 20 years of abuse is a long, long time to be reversed with a magic wand for a week or two.
– I hope what I wrote is not too long and thank you for your time reading it!

ANSWER
As you have guessed correctly, chronic over-masturbation produced substance abuse effects as in its nature is exactly that. It re-shaped your / endocrine / nervous systems / internal organs, such as: brain, liver, heart, lungs, prostate / affected your hypothalamic – pituitary – adrenal – testicular axis and your hormonal and nervous receptors.

You have activated excessive dopamine – norepinephrine – epinephrine conversions and burned out your proper serotonin – GABA nervous modulation on inflammatory response. Once the control is shaken, negative nervous plasticity is even faster to occur. You will know your Brain Reward System is seriously affected when you can’t control yourself properly and feel the withdrawal symptoms you mentioned.

Initially, and in properly functioning organisms, sexual arousal actually lowers cortisol and increases DHEA, testosterone, DHT, LH, and FHS. However, if the act is prolonged or repeated daily, inflammatory factors, increased cortisol, and decreased production of the already mentioned DHEA, testosterone, LH, and FHS is observed (with the exception of the DHT which remains high or even higher, with greater testosterone – DHT ratio conversions). Memory can then really suffer through numerous factors.

1) Norepinephrine – epinephrine action on the brain-blood barrier (BBB) allowing part of the excessive cortisol into the brain, leading to a destruction of acetylcholine nervous systems directly responsible for things like memory processing.

2) The rather obvious lowered and impaired levels of numerous other neurotransmitters, directly burned through the activities, as well as the lowered receptors for such.

“Do you think that my physical appearance and undergrowth has something to do with masturbation?”

Masturbation will affect the hormonal / neurotransmitter equilibrium of the whole organism and possibly impair your growth. Predominantly directly through lowered hGH, DHEA, Testosterone plus other androgens.

“Do you believe that I may have ruined some of my organs like testicles and prostate?”

Your testicles could be damaged through the partial hypothalamic – pituitary – testicular axis lock. The damage is usually not that severe and is very reversible. Other conditions, however, that can frequently be caused by overactive sexual activities during young age, such as varicocele, can severely damage them.

The prostate could be inflamed and slightly enlarged, you didn’t complain of any sharp pain so no severe abrasion is to be expected.

“Can I do something to aid my brain issues and imbalances I mentioned? I would very much like to return to the bright kid I once was.”

There is much that can be done, actually. As for the specific imbalances you mentioned, I’d suggest a combination of Multi-Alpha, Alpha-Amino, Balance-Essentials, 5HTP-Nettle, GRB6-GABA, and Ultra-Purified-FishOil to rejuvenate your neuro – endocrine function, stabilize acetylcholine, serotonin, dopamine, GABA levels, aid your weakened serotonin – GABA nervous control (directly affecting excessive dopamine – norepinephrine – epinephrine conversions) , increase prostaglandin E1 E3 and Nitric Oxide, alter responsive gene expressions that may have been activated during these last 20 years, and rewrite your negative neuroplasticity for healing.

Of course, basics like sexual activities discontinuation (1 to 3 moths), exercise, proper diet, massages, and negative ion exposure must be followed as consistently as possible.

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I have been addicted to masturbation for about five years now. At first, during the first two years it wasn’t a big deal. But now its gotten to be a very big problem. I am addicted to it, it has gotten worse over the years.

I can’t go to sleep without masturbating. My sleep schedule is messed up because i stay up all night sometimes, looking at pornography. At first, it used to take me six or seven minutes to reach climax and be done for the day. Now it takes me many different times to climax and hours to finish looking at porn. I also look at more hardcore pornography now as the stuff i started out with doesn’t stimulate me any more.

I can’t control myself and end up getting three hours of sleep at most per day. I’m always tired from lack of sleep and feel exhausted from the sex. I have tried to stop masturbating and i can’t. I stop for two days at most and then give in to my temptation. How can i stop? I have noticed that my short term memory has gotten noticeably worse over these five years and i don’t want it to progress farther. I am nervous that i will get erectile dysfunction.

What can i do to stop this endless cycle? Sometimes sex is all i can think about…

ANSWER
This is a common problem actually.
You are addicted through your brain reward circuitry. If something boosts your dopamine levels it becomes addictive to you. The orgasm is a huge dopamine blast for the brain, actually it is not that different from the effect that cocaine and other similar drugs promote. The porn and masturbation will alter the brain reward circuitry. The body will adapt to the surges so you will need even greater stimulation for the similar result.

The increased amount of prostaglandin E2 when you began masturbating aided your system in the faster altering of your neuroplasticity so your body adapted quite quickly to the new reality. High amount of stress, inflammation, and excitatory hormones in the blood and internal organs will actually put your brain and pelvic organs in constant “heat” for everlasting craving for sex.

Such addictions are very difficult to break, it may feel that it is a psychological, but it is actually the negative neuroplasticity that has to be altered.

You are currently burning your system’s resources through various conversions while still experiencing relatively normal levels of prolactin and sufficient androgen hormones to continue. Most of the men suffering sexual exhaustion have gone through this phase before they reach the breaking point, and even then some of them they continue masturbating with soft penises. The addiction very severe enough, many wouldn’t be able to change, even to save their lives.

You may consider boosting your serotonin-GABA blown nervous modulation on dopamine-norepinephrine-epinephrine conversions, prostaglandin E2 and cortisol production, thus lowering the internal inflammatory excitation. And in the same time you should “fuel” your organism with the ingredients needed for a healthy sexual functioning, so you wouldn’t have to restrain yourself completelyo. This can be achieved by taking our specially designed Multi-Alpha, 5HTP-Nettle, A-Amino, GRB7-GABA, and Ultra-Purified-FishOil.

You may also want to consider utilizing solutions to additionally increase your androgens by testicular temperature regulation.

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Glucose, Fasting = 102 (65 – 99 mg/dL) *out of range*
Protein, Total = 6.6 (6.0 – 8.2 g/dL)
Albumin = 4.4 (3.5 – 5.2 g/dL)
Globulin = 2.2 (2.1 – 3.8 g/dL)
A/G Ratio = 2.0 (1.1 – 2.2 ratio)
AST (SGOT) = 18 (5 – 34 U/L)
ALT (SGPT) = 29 (10 – 35 U/L)
Bilirubin, Total = 0.4 (0.0 – 1.0 mg/dL)
Alkaline Phosphatase = 52 (40 – 150 U/L)
Calcium = 9.3 (8.5 – 10.5 mg/dL)
BUN (Urea Nitrogen) = 15 (11 – 37 mg/dL)
Creatinine = 1.2 (0.7 – 1.3 mg/dL)
Sodium = 141 (135 – 145 mEq/L)
Potassium = 4.4 (3.5 – 5.3 mEq/L)
Chloride = 103 (96 – 112 mEq/L)
CO2 (Bicarbonate) = 27 (22 – 29 mEq/L)
Cholesterol = 149 (130 – 200 mg/dL)
Triglycerides = 124 ( HDL Cholesterol = 44 (40 – 90 mg/dL)
LDL Cholesterol = 80 ( VLDL Cholesterol = 25 ( Glycohemoglobin A1C = 6.1 (<6.0) *out of range*
Prolactin = 4.5 (2.1 – 17.7 ng/mL)
Estradiol = 32.1 (11.6 – 41.2 pg/mL)
DHEA-S = 491 (35 – 430 ug/dL) *out of range*
Testosterone, Total = 431 (241 – 827 ng/dL)
Testosterone, Free = 1.59 (0.95 – 4.30 ng/dL)
TSH, Ultrasensitive = 1.45 (0.35 – 5.50 uIU/mL)
T3, Free (FT3) = 3.66 (2.3 – 4.2 pg/mL)
T4, Free (FT4) = 1.35 (0.89 – 1.76 ng/dL)
Cortisol, Free 24 hour Urine = 29.90 (2.6 – 37.0 ug/24 hr)
Can you please help me get back to normal Dr.Richard?

Thanks and God Bless!

ANSWER
The results seem fairly normal, just a bit out of the normal range for glucose and glucose-hemoglobin, so should be careful not to develop form of diabetes.

You are experiencing degree of sexual exhaustion, fortunately, you don’t seem suffer from the most severe symptoms.

Over-masturbation can be very damaging to both nervous and endocrine systems, thus causing numerous ill effects. When the hypothalamic-pituitary-testicular axis is not working efficiently enough you will experience the symptoms you are dealing with.

A satisfying recovery is more than possible, however, there are several things that should be done:

1.Discontinue sexual activities for 1 to 3 months.
2.Balance your diet.
3.Make good use of the specially created Alpha-AGH, Multi-Alpha, Alpha-Amino, Ultra-Purified-FishOil, and testicle temperature regulatory solutions to restore proper restore proper nervous and endocrine functions, boost the natural HGH production, restore serotonin-GABA nervous modulation on excessive dopamine-norepinephrine-epinephrine conversion, increase androgens, positively change the current negative neuroplasticity, support testicular function, charge the CNS, and promote prostaglandin E1 E3 and NO for healing.

UPDATE
Thanks for your kind response Doctor. I have few questions:
1) I am puzzled why I am getting nocturnal erections but lose them the moment I fully wake up?
2) For how many days should I discontinue sexual activities?
3) What is the dosage for the supplements you have recommended? and how many days should I take them?
4) How many days will it take for me to get normal hard erections?
Thanks!

ANSWER
It is my pleasure.

1. Due to changes in the biochemistry and induced responses when one is awake. Also if you lose them right away might mean that the available androgen hormones are distributed to fuel other vital functions (due to increased consumption) so there are not enough left to fuel your erection.

2. Three weeks to a month, and continue with lowered sexual activities for two to three more months.

3. 1 capsule of Alpha-AGH in the morning, 1 tablet of Multi-Alpha throughout the day, 2 tablets of Alpha-Amino after exercise or throughout the day, best in the early afternoon, and 2 to 3 softgels of Ultra-Purified-FishOil throughout the day, after meals.

4. Depends on the severity of the exhaustion and individual gene expression. After the first two weeks to a month notable improvements will be observed. However, to keep the results and fully restore proper endocrine functioning (even though you will have normal erections soon enough) you should abstain from excessive sexual activities even.

UPDATE
I’ve had a similar problem except I’ve went through extreme phases of masturbating to pornography since I was 14. I am 25 now and have pretty much lost my sex drive. Worse yet, I’ve progressively turned to harder and harder porn to reach orgasm. I noticed the trend a few years back and have either quit porn for a few weeks or worked on “normalizing” what I watch. I’ve never been able to fully kick my pornography addiction even though I don’t want to use it anymore.

At 16, I was put on Celexa for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and that made it difficult to orgasm and stay hard. I always thought it was just the medicine that caused this, but since I’ve been off, I only notice a minor difference. I can orgasm quicker, yes, but I don’t get hard without physical contact and porn to help me.

As for relations with the opposite sex, I’ve only had a few with one woman on two separate occasions. The first time I was on Celexa and I just could not maintain an erection or reach orgasm. It was extremely embarrassing. The second time, I was off the med for a few weeks and I still had the same problem. At this point, I’ve pretty much given up because I’m so afraid to have this happen again. I’m thinking of going to sexual addiction counseling to cure my porn addiction once and for all, but I’m not even close to the rate I was at in my teens. I’m being honest when I say, there are some days I masturbated over ten times. I would say from 15-18, I averaged somewhere between 2-3 times a day. Since then, it was about once a day until this year. My drive is dying and I just want to have a normal, healthy sex drive again. Do you recommend I take the same supplements the previous poster should? I’ve been off Celexa for about two months now and have taken breaks from it before. So, I’m not taking anything at all right now and just want to get myself back on track. Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks!

ANSWER
You’ve gone through one of the worst cases scenario, years of excessive masturbation plus chronic intake of SSRIs (Related Article). All this damaged your proper endocrine and nervous functioning and ultimately ruined your sex life and libido.

OCD may be related to your overactive sexual activities, since a serotonin fluctations are a possible cause.

The problems should be addressed properly and there is much that can be done.

Yes, Alpha-AGH, Multi-Alpha, Alpha-Amino, and Ultra-Purified-FishOil will be of great assistance in dealing with the problems, but you should also add 5HTP-Nettle, and Zeolite-DA to more specifically address the damage caused by the SSRIs. All of the above should restore proper nervous and endocrine functioning, increase the libido, cleanse the liver and restore its P450 detox. system, boost hGH and androgen hormones production, restore nervous modulation on stress and inflammatory hormonal releases, support proper testicular functioning, charge the CNS, and promote prostaglandin E1 E3 and NO for healing.

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ANSWER
You are certainly suffering from sexual exhaustion.

The heavy masturbation discharged your acetylcholine, dopamine, serotonin, and GABA, increased stress and inflammatory hormonal release of prolactin, prostaglandin E2, cortisol, epinephrine, norepinephrine, blew the nervous modulation on dopamine-norepinephrine-epinephrine, discharged the CNS, altered the neuroplasticity for good 22 years, and locked hypothalamic-pituitary-testicular axis. This, of course, affected your testicular function for low sperm count and motility, semen volume, and morphology.

It is not enough to discontinue masturbation, because of the exhausted nervous and endocrine functions, negative neuroplasticity, blown modulation on stress and inflammatory hormonal release to support a self-stimulating cycle for additional excitatory and inflammatory hormone release, exhausted CNS, and improper modulation on dopamine-norepinephrine-epinephrine conversion. That is why even after 40 days of no masturbation there won’t be any noticeable difference.

You lose erection when you are in an upright position because there are not enough androgen hormones to support both your lower parts of the body and healthy sexual functions. If they become too low you may lose your erections permanently, it won’t matter if you are lying on the bed or not.

You should balance your diet, generally speaking, less red meat and milk, and more vegetables.

Testicular temperature regulation will prove to be effective in increasing androgens.

Also, to address the biochemical processes that take place in a more direct manner you may want to make use of specially designed formulas: Multi-Alpha, 5HTP-Nettle, Alpha-Amino, and Ultra-Purified-FishOil.

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The longest time i have gone is 4 weeks, where it seems to be unbearable (all i can thin about) Seems i have an addiction. My question is, is my “can’t stop” problem a result of my masturbation? ie: problem in itself?

Also, i have read the article on symptoms of sexual exhaustion, and i was wondering if the effects (both physically and hence, neurologically) COMPLETELY reverseable? or are there some permanent damage involved?

And what is the cure to all this?
-G

ANSWER
G, yes, the masturbation itself will make you want to masturbate even more. I suggest you take a look – Here. Frequently the “can’t stop” is caused by the problem, yes.

You should not worry if your libido is normal and you don’t experience any of the symptoms of sexual exhaustion. However, if you are experiencing symptoms of sexual exhaustion and crave for sex at the same time I would guess that there is a problem with the nervous modulation on inflammatory hormones (binded to the prostate and penile tissues, keeping you in “heat” for sexual activity).

If you suffer sexual exhaustion for many years, a permanent damage to many internal organs and tissues will be observed. If so, a complete recovery won’t be possible.

There is a cure:
1.Discontinue any sexual activities for 1 to 3 months.
2.Fix your nervous and endocrine functions, restore the proper levels of certain hormones and neurotransmitters, restore the proper nervous modulation on the inflammatory hormones, restore the proper levels of androgen hormones, jump start the CNS, and boost prostaglandins E1 E3 and Nitric Oxide’s with Multi-Alpha, 5HTP-Nettle, Alpha-Amino, GRB6-GABA, Ultra-Purified-FishOil, and testicle temperature regulation.

Wish you a fast recovery!

UPDATE
Much help, thanks!
Although it seems to me that my masterbation “addiction” is more of a phycological dependency.Possibly a OCD. Does this have any connection to what your saying? Also, does sexual exaustion exist without the symptoms? (seen from the damage done standpoint)
-G

ANSWER
Abnormal neurotransmitter levels will cause OCD. OCD will lead to abnormal neurotransmitter levels, as well, but it is very physical. You are addicted through your reward circuit, that is why it seems to you that it is a psychological addiction.

Sexual exhaustion does not exist without symptoms.

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This site is amazing. I’m so glad I found it. I would like to get your opinion on something. I’ve been over-masturbating since my early teens and doing it a least once a day, sometimes three times or more… although now that I’m much older only once a day, usually at night to help me fall asleep.

I’ve always had obsessive sexual thoughts and was very sexual with my girlfriends. (we had sex everyday, sometimes two or more times) but these relationships never really had any substance – just sex, nothing much else in common, and the girls didn’t treat me very well. I also thought about sex all the time and had fantasies about having sex with all sorts of women. At this time I had never loved anyone.

Then one day I met a girl who was cute but didn’t have much sex appeal as she was very innocent and a virgin. I wasn’t very attractive to her, but she was so nice and made me laugh and we had a lot in common. (liked the same food, movies, values..etc) We could talk for hours and I really enjoyed her company and had never experienced that before. We started to hang out and she wanted to be more than friends but I didn’t because the physical attraction wasn’t enough. (she didn’t exuded a great amount of sex appeal and therefor wasn’t doing it for me at the time, but maybe that was because I was watching porn and thinking sexual thoughts) I continued being her friend while having sex with an ex-girlfriend who treated me like shit and wasn’t very nice. It didn’t take long before I dumped my ex and focused solo on my friendship with the new girl.

About three months passed and we finally had sex and it was okay, but I really got along with her and enjoyed her company. I started to love her for who she was and started enjoying the sex somewhat, but it wasn’t sensual or dirty which is what I was use to. But I didn’t want to lose her because she had become like my best friend. It got to the point were the relationship was going good and the sex was okay but the fun and laughs were enough to make it all worth while. We eventually got married and were pretty much happy. (only thing that was lacking was the sex was lacing a spark)

BUT — all through the years while being with her I still continued to masturbate at night before I went to sleep and sometimes during the day while fantasizing about other women and doing hardcore sexual things.)

As more time passed she wasn’t doing it for me at all but I loved her.. it was like my dopamine or something was demanding more stimulant. I was looking at porn and eyeing all the women that would pass me on the street and I would think dirty sexual thoughts about them and then masturbate. As long as I was doing this I was happy. When I stopped doing this I would be cranky, mean, and lash out.

My question to you is… my wife treats me so good, she does some many great things for me, and she’s my best friend, but sometimes I feel like there isn’t any passion, yet sometimes when we make love it’s good… You would think when two people get along and make each other laugh and have everything in common that the relationship would be strong, but if so, then why am I always looking at porn and other women?

After reading your site and a few other articles about dopamine, I now think that maybe I’m addicted to dopamine and my addiction his looking to get the big HIT it needs but I’m not getting it from my wife.. so I’m looking elsewhere. (porn, fantasy) I’ve got all sorts of sexual exhaustion symptoms (weak erection, premature ejaculation, anxiety, memory troubles) So I decided to quit masturbating and fix those things and take the vitamins you have been telling people in my situation to take. After two weeks I feel like I’m crawling out of my skin. I look at my wife and it’s like I hate her one moment, and then love her the next. I think my brain chemicals are going bonkers or my dopamine is so low that I’m like a drug addict needing a hit… but my thoughts right are that maybe I’m feeling depressed because I’m not happy with my wife, but then I think but she is so wonderful and treats me so good… maybe the REAL problem is that my addiction to dopamine is telling I don’t want my wife, that she is the problem so that i will go out meet a new girl who will then for me meantime shoot up my dopamine levels.

I’ve always been confused to why I wouldn’t be happy with a woman who is everything I ever wanted except very sexual. It’s not like she doesn’t have sex with me.. just not fulfilling my need for heavy duty passion or sexual stimulant. But am I only craving new sex from other women and passion from other women because I’m addicted to high dopamine levels? I don’t want to lose my best friend, but I also am craving passionate love making — but maybe I can’t EVER get that from anyone unless a kick my dopamine addiction.

I would love to read your thoughts.

thank you kindly.

ANSWER
Thank you for sharing your story.

Your disharmonious feelings are because of the constant ups and downs of the neurotransmitters and hormones responsible for them. Let’s see what is happening here:

You’ve got it right. The porn and masturbation addiction leads to altered brain reward circuitry. Generally speaking, if something is boosting your dopamine levels, it is addictive to you – it doesn’t matter if it is porn, sex, masturbation, video games, driving your new car, eating sugar and so on. Masturbation or sex at first boosts up your dopamine levels through the dopamine-norepinephrine-epinephrine conversion and later lowers them because of the excessive prolactin release. This is a very unhealthy fluctuation that will leave you with all sorts of messed up feelings.

Low dopamine levels will leave you depressed, with low libido, with anti-social behavior, lack of ambition, and inability to feel love. While high levels will make you anxious, a risk taker, aggressive, and psychotic. The key is having normal levels that will promote a healthy libido, friendly feelings towards others, strong logic, healthy ambition, and healthy bonding to your activities.

The orgasm is a huge dopamine blast for our brains, not that different from the one that the cocaine or other drugs promote. An extremely high levels of dopamine will promote extremely high levels of prolactin, so you will suffer a hangover (the next weeks) that will shift your perception for the reality itself and leave you empty with messed up feelings.

Currently, you are experiencing weakened dopamine surge from your wife (you never had a strong surge in the first place, but even if you did, this would have been the possible outcome), so she doesn’t look to you that rewarding as the other girls and porn.

However, you have a bond with your wife through other hormones, such as oxytocin. Oxytocin is responsible for the feeling of comfort and love for your partner. Generally speaking, the dopamine is the lust and the oxytocin is the affection. You need balanced levels of both dopamine and oxytocin to stay in love. As you can observe for yourself, you are not very happy about the fact that are not getting the dopamine shot from your wife.

Any heavy dopamine addiction will also cause oxytocin fluctuations, that is why you may feel extremely confused – you hate her, you love her. Since you suffer from other symptoms of sexual exhaustion, the problem is obvious. You experience several symptoms of sexual exhaustion which is an indication that the modulation has been blown and is no longer capable of keeping normal levels of certain stress and inflammatory hormones. An altered reward circuit can be extremely devastating. You should restore the proper nervous modulation on your hormonal and nts levels, promote prostaglandins E1 E3 and NO for healing, jump start your CNS, androgen hormones production, and avoid any strong dopamine shots.

In time your brain reward circuitry will be restored and you will feel nearly the same dopamine satisfaction from just a regular, sensual sex.

UPDATE
thanks for your help.
Is it possible when I met my wife that because I was watching porn, over masterbating and having lascivious sex with others that there was no way ANY nice, virgin girl with good morals was going to turn me on?

Also, any thing I can take to improve the thing you mentioned:

“Any heavy dopamine addiction will also cause oxytocin fluctuations, that is why you may feel extremely confused – you hate her, you love her. Since you suffer from other symptoms of sexual exhaustion the problem is obvious. You have several symptoms of sexual exhaustion which is an indication that the modulation has been blown and is no longer capable of keeping normal levels of certain stress and inflammatory hormones. An altered reward circuit can be very devastating, so you should restore the proper nervous modulation on your hormonal and nts levels, promote prostaglandins E1 E3 and NO for healing, jump start your CNS, androgen hormones production, and avoid any strong dopamine shots”

ANSWER
Is it possible, but sexual attraction is a complicated process and is driven by many factors. Your subconscious mind may have never approved your wife as a mating partner – it has its own criteria, which can be altered as well.

You should:
1. Discontinue any sexual activities for 1 to 3 months.
2. Balance your diet and improve your lifestyle.
3. Take frequent massages to promote blood flow.
4. Promote prostaglandins E1 E3 and NO for healing.
5. Check your testosterone levels. If they are around 300ng/dl you will have difficulties restoring proper testicular function. If so, I’d suggest to avoid external sources such as testosterone replacement therapy.

UPDATE
thanks for all the advice. I already feel stronger after only five days.
What is a normal testosterone level? Anything over 300ng/dl?

As you can imagine, stopping sexual activity is very hard when you’ve been doing it for a long time. If one gets an erection and strokes it a few times and realizes “oh shoot, I’m not suppose to do this” is it better just to stop, or is it better to ejaculate? (and start all over at day 1 again)

ANSWER
Yes, total and free testosterone levels should be measured.

It’s almost always a good idea to just stop. However, for prolonged sessions (more than 25-30 minutes) you should ejaculate.

UPDATE
If my test is under 300ng then I need to take Clomiphene to naturally boost it up? How many days and how many pills of Clomiphene?

ANSWER
Most probably you will be fine. Check it just in case. If around or under 300ng you may take 50mg 10 days and 25mg the next 10. This should do the trick.

UPDATE
Got my test back and my free testosterone was 398 — is that okay? I think the regular testosterone was 20.2.

ANSWER
20.2 in (nmol/L) units ?

UPDATE
Testosterone was 20.2 and looks like the unit was nmol/L. Nothing else was shown.

ANSWER
Actually the free testosterone should have been 0.398. The results are withing the normal range. Nothing to worry about, not unless you’re under 25 years of age.
UPDATE
You recommended no sex for 2 months when suffering from sexual exhaustion.
* Would it be ok to do it just once a week? (I just don’t know if me (or) my wife could possibly stand a 2 week layoff…
* When the 2 months is up… how many times total sex + masturbation do you consider “too much” per week?
The reason I ask is: Let’s pretend I go on a romantic vacation with my wife, and she wants to do it 2-3 times that day, only then once the next day, 3 times the next day, and so forth. Is it ok to have these “splurge periods” every so often.

ANSWER
If a proper HPAT axis functioning is observed, along with proper acetylcholine, serotonin, dopamine, and GABA levels, there should be no problem to do it regularly. Once a week during the recovery period is not a great idea. Once per 2 weeks is a moderate and solid frequency.

Too much is an individual feature, if you have the right biochemistry to support your activities you may make sex 10 times a week or more.

Multiple orgasms in one session will fully deplete the seminal vesicles and will rapidly lead to sexual exhaustion.

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